Sunday, October 12, 2014

Extinguishing the Flames. Literally.

Yesterday I went to the Open House at the Lincoln Fire Department.  Attendance was a little low because of the rain but they did a fabulous job.  Not having any young children I would not normally go to this but being a candidate for public office I try to go to events, meet people and see what is going on.  I am so happy I went to this.  I learned something that could potentially save a life or prevent  substantial loss.  It is something embarrassingly simple.

We have a smoke extinguisher in our house and I have never given it a thought. It sits in the corner of the kitchen, I pass it several times a day and I barely know it is there.  It came with the house two years ago.

There was a company that specializes in fire extinguishers called A.C. & M. Fire Equipment at this open house.  They had a demo set up with several types of extinguishers and they provided the opportunity to actually operate one.  Well, kind of operate it, they were not 'loaded'.   It is really quite simple to do but I had never thought about it and in an emergency who has time to think about how to operate the equipment?  I now am much more confident that should I need to use this extinguisher, I will save a couple of seconds of time that I would otherwise have wasted trying to figure out how to start it up.  A couple seconds in a fire emergency could be vital.

Another thing they told me was how to know what kind of extinguisher can be used in what situation.  I don't know if you can see in this picture but we have an ABC extinguisher (top left in label) and this kind of extinguisher can be used for all types of fires.  One less thing I have to worry about.  Finally, they told me how to determine if our extinguisher is still functional or if it has to be replaced or serviced.  These are all things I really had never thought about before.

Good: Put a lid on a grease fire




After this demo they went outside and did a demo of how to actually put out a fire.  Where to stand, where to spray etc. They demonstrated the procedure for putting out several types of fires including a wood fire, a grease fire and a lawnmower fire.

Bad!!!: Putting water on a grease fire.  Don't do it!








Last week when I was knocking on doors in Waltham I met a young UMass Amherst college student who was home for the weekend.  She decided to come home after her roommates ruined the  kitchen in their apartment when they attempted to use water to put out a grease fire.  Fortunately no one was hurt but now they have to figure out how to pay for repairing the kitchen.  This is her first venture into off campus housing.  She decided to go home for a couple days where it is safe.

I want to thank the Lincoln Fire Department for hosting this event and for inviting A.C. & M. Fire Equipment to come and teach us about fire extinguishers.  I never would have expected to find learning about them to be so interesting!

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Eddie - I think I got his vote

Last week I met a man named Eddie.  Eddie said he was planning to vote for my opponent.  We chatted about this and that and I talked a little about my plan to work from within the legislature to help our social services agencies be more accessible to us the consumers.  I talked a little about the advocacy I have been doing over the last 10 years and that I would like to see the state agencies and the community service agencies collaborate more on providing services to those in need.  That is when he told me a little about his story.

Eddie is, I don't know, middle age I guess, a college graduate, white (if you care), apparently born here in the US (again, for those that would ask) and he is employed full time.  I did not ask where he works or what his family or living situation is, I just let him speak.  Eddie told me that while he makes more than minimum wage (more than $8/hr), he does not earn enough money to sustain himself.  He believes he is eligible for an EBT card (Electronic Benefits Transfer card).  Eddie told me that for the last 10 months he has been filling out forms, making phone calls and trying to cross all the necessary 'T's in order to fulfill the requirements.  He has been doing everything he is supposed to do but still he waits for his response.  Ten months.
 
I cannot imagine why it is taking so long for Eddie to at least get a response of yes or no to this application.  Ten months is unconscionable.  However, having spent the last 10 years advocating full time for services for our children, I can certainly empathize with him.  Wholly to the detriment of those in need, it is tremendously difficult to navigate these waters. I told Eddie that his story and the story of others like him that are in need, is one of the driving forces behind my campaign.  It should not be this difficult.

I also told Eddie that while I cannot speak for my opponent and as he has not made himself available for a candidate forum, we cannot ask him to clarify his position, I can speak to his voting record.   My source is Progressive Massachusetts, whose mission reads, in part, "Progressive Mass works to move Massachusetts toward a future where the values of equal opportunity, social and economic justice, consumer and environmental protection, health care as a right, equal access to quality public services, respect for all residents and accountable and transparent government are given top priority."  They have documented how Massachusetts legislators voted on various issues.  The ones relevant to Eddie's situation are noted below.  In all three cases, Tom Stanley, according to this site, voted against Progressive MA.  In other words, he voted to make it more difficult for people like Eddie to get the help they need.  The website and the synopsis of the legislation can be found here:

http://www.progressivemass.com/progressive_mass_house_roll_call_votes_2013_2014
1) Safety Net, EBT: Vote was to effectively block an amendment that would have further restricted the use of EBT cards. (Progressive Position: Yes, Roll Call #96, Bill H3400, 4/23/2013)

4) Safety net: Vote was on an amendment to add further restrictions to accessing public benefits. (Progressive Position: No, Roll Call #28, Bill H55, 2/6/2013)

8) Safety net: Vote was to effectively block an amendment that would make it more difficult for the poor to apply for public benefits. (Progressive Position: Yes, Roll Call #97, Bill H3400, 4/23/2013)

Monday, October 6, 2014

My week on the Campaign Trail

I have had an interesting week this past week.

Monday I went to a LatinasRepresent conference at UMass Boston.  It was really inspiring to hear from all these women, Latina women, who came together to support each other in helping to determine their own futures.  We heard from State Senator Sonia Chang-Diaz who told us about her first unsuccessful and then successful run for office.  We heard from a Latina woman in RI that is running for Secretary of State and a woman in western MA who was born in Puerto Rico and just ran  for State Representative.  This last woman was not successful but was seemingly undeterred.   While there I also had the chance to meet Tito Jackson.  Super nice guy.  I was surprised to see he is so young!  Two of our sons live next door to him and I had been looking forward to making his acquaintance.

Monday I also found out my opponent is not interested or not available, I am not sure which, to participate in a candidates forum.  I am very saddened by this as it is a loss for all of us.  The voters need to understand who they have to choose from on November 4.  If anyone reading this is so inclined, please ask Mr. Stanley to reconsider and make the time for a forum.

Most days I was out knocking on a few to many doors.  Saying hello and introducing myself to people when they answered the doors, leaving my flyer when they did not.  Very close to everyone has been really nice to me, whether or not they have any intentions of voting for me.  A couple people told me they weren't interested but they are very much the minority.  I would say, certainly not all, but the vast majority of people I meet tell me they will give me their vote.  Now if I can just meet a cool 15,000 people over the next 4 weeks...

Tuesday night I went to two events in Waltham.  Great turnout at both events.  I went to a meeting of Local Waltham First http://walthamlocalfirst.org.  This is a new group formed to support local businesses.  I learned about some interesting businesses in Waltham about which I knew nothing.  And I got to meet the man behind DiscoverWalthamMA!  That was definitely cool.  Then I went to a local meeting at the Waltham Community Center to generate input on the community needs for the local parks.  I was impressed by how many people came to have their say, particularly the number of young people, it really was quite nice to see.  There was a very tall man named Bobby Martin that I didn't know but I figured he was 'someone'.  He spoke very eloquently and passionately about the parks, the need for community pride in the parks and the need for parent involvement as well as having equipment at the parks to engage parents as well as children.  I was not at all surprised the next day when I was telling my son about the meeting.  All he could say was, 'you met Bobby Martin? He is mad big, did you shake his hand and see how big it is?"  Sadly I did not get that chance.

On Wednesday night we were at the Mad Raven on Main St in Waltham.  Sadly I don't think anyone specifically came to see me.  On the plus side, I talked to many people there and I am confident I collected at least a couple of votes.  One man didn't have much to say while there but followed up with an email asking about my stance on Veterans.  I will include my response to him below.  Another man told me he was going to vote for my opponent but after we talked for a few minutes, I think I converted him.  I will write about him separately under the title of 'Eddie'.

Thursday I met with the editor of the Waltham Tribune, Paul Crocetti.  What a nice guy.  We talked about my campaign and also about creative ways to help get the word out about both our campaigns.  In the afternoon I started putting out signs in Lincoln yards.  Today is Monday and each day I put out a few more.  I am super excited that Senator Susan Fargo said she would like to have a sign to put in her yard.  Actually, I am super excited that so many people I know and people I don't know have generously offered to have signs in their yards.  Unfortunately one of my signs was taken down by someone unknown.  That is kind of sad.


Friday I worked the street corner in Waltham.  I held signs for me and Martha Coakley at the corner of Main and Moody.  Here is a picture of me with Kelly Durkee-Erwin.  Kelly was holding signs for Martha Coakley and Senator Markey.




Saturday was more signs and door knocking.  I stopped by to see a man I will call Steve.  I had met him a week or two ago and he told me he would vote for me if he could but he can't because he served five years in prison and is a convicted felon.  I looked up the regulations and brought him a copy which clearly state that he can vote if he is not currently incarcerated.  He wasn't home so I left him the information along with a voter registration card, and, of course, my literature.  Another women I had met previously asked for copies of my literature and a few signs for some friends of hers.  She also asked if her 14 year old grandson can help in anyway as he would like to learn more about the political process.  Music to my ears!  Look for him holding signs with me!

I received the best message when I got home.  A woman from Waltham wanted to know how she could donate to my campaign.  My first request from a complete unknown!  She saw my sign and wanted in on the campaign.  I met her on Sunday and she asked for multiple copies of my flyer and asked me to put a sign in her yard.  One voter at a time.

 Sunday we had the coffee hour at Dunkin Donuts at 130 Lexington St in Waltham.  A few people stopped by to see us specifically.  We also were able to reach out to many people that were stopping by for their Sunday morning coffee.  One table I approached informed me they are all Stanley fans and in fact his mother is often sitting with them on Sunday mornings.  I hope she is there next week, I hear Mrs. Stanley is a wonderful person.  And I saw one of the young men I previously wrote about.  The men of our future.  He still will not register to vote.  But he gave me his address so I can put up a lawn sign and he took some literature and will try to get me some votes.  That is something.  But I am going to keep on him.  I now have his contact info.

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My response to the person that emailed asking what I mean by "Take good care of veterans"

Hello,

Thank you for writing!  So few people do.
It was great meeting you last night as well.  I get kind of
intimidated going up to people at the bar but people are nice to me
and once in a while I run into a potential voter like yourself.

I live in Lincoln, moved here 15 years ago and I am an Independent,
which makes running kind of tough as I have no party backing.  But,
that is fine, it is what I chose, though in the future I might
re-think that choice.

My 'take good care of veterans' means just that.  I think it is
unconscionable that we send people to fight for our country, protect
our country, serve our country and then when they are done with their
tour of duty we, at least in many cases, turn our backs on them.   I
have certainly spoken to many veterans that are completely satisfied
and feel their needs have been and are being met.  I have also heard
from many where that is not the case.  Many of the issues I am
concerned about surround veteran's needs as in housing, mental health
(PTSD), substance use, education, jobs.  Veterans, in my opinion,
should have priority treatment in healthcare, education, jobs and
housing.  I don't know exactly how to turn the whole system around but
I, well I grew up when lots of people were coming back from Vietnam
and I knew veterans in my area (I grew up in Attleboro) that were
either homeless or next door to it.  One man couldn't have a
relationship with a woman because his PTSD always got in the way and
he was afraid he would hurt her.  One that needed and couldn't get
dental care and many that had substance use issues and many that had
minimal education and menial jobs, if any job.  I have to believe that
at least in some cases those substances were coping mechanisms and
their economic situations were a direct result of the time they
served.

Please go to my website www.sharonantia.com and/or like my FB page
https://www.facebook.com/sharon.antia.9

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Dancing with Myself


This past weekend I went to the Edinburg Center’s ‘Rock into Recovery’ Day on the Waltham Common.  There were three, count them 3 bands that played that day.  Or was it 4.  They were all terrific and, they all played for free!  These folks all volunteered their time on this beautiful fall day to play music for this wonderful cause.  When I say they were terrific, they were foot stomping, have a great time, happy, good all fashioned talented, targeted and twirling fun.

In fact, they were so much fun I couldn’t resist.  Not being one to dance on the dance floor by myself, I took my sign up on the dance floor and twirled me around the sign.  My ploy worked and before too long Fran was up there kicking it with me.  And, of course, I have the evidence.



Thanks to my photographer, Lee.

Friday, September 5, 2014

The Story of Oscar


A young man named Oscar wandered into one of our Community Conversations.  He was at the library looking for some meeting or other and wondered if ours was it.  It was not but he decided to stay and join us.  At this particular meeting we were discussing the Stigma of Mental Health and addressing the unmet mental health needs of so many among us.  We had an animated conversation for close to an hour and a half during which Oscar remained silent.  Before we wrapped up I asked Oscar if he had any thoughts on the subject.  He started out slowly but then he opened up.

Oscar first told us that this meeting was meant for him.  Oscar told us that he is very lonely and has no one to hang out with.  We peppered him with questions such as ‘where is your family?’, ‘what about work friends’, ‘church’ etc.  It seems his family does not live near here and he has not seen them in some time.  He has work friends or acquaintances but he is alone in his apartment.  Recently Oscar was outside and saw a snail.  He picked the snail up, brought it in his apartment and named him Gary.  Gary is now Oscar’s pet and his friend.  He cares for Gary and has Gary to look forward to everyday when he comes home.

We asked him more questions and he told us what he would really like is a girlfriend.  We could work with this.  What about church? – They are all over 50.  What about local nightclubs? – There is lots of drinking and he does not know anyone there, he has tried that option.  What about going to some of the fabulous restaurants in Waltham?  - He does go sometimes and asks for a table for one.  What about local colleges, Bentley and Brandeis, you could start hanging around them? – He will think about it, or maybe he will volunteer at the library.

I worry about Oscar and others like him.  He seems like a sweet, kind young man but being isolated and lonely is a terrible combination.  I am no diagnostician but I suspect he also suffers from depression.  Regardless, he is in danger for a shortened life.  Evidence suggests isolation can have serious physical health implications. http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2013/08/dangers_of_loneliness_social_isolation_is_deadlier_than_obesity.html
And a quick check on the internet unloads volumes of articles about isolated young men and women being easy prey for all manner of ill-advised activities.  We, as a community, need to figure out how to help the Oscars in our world.

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Higher Ed

Higher education, be it a bachelor's degree, a technical training program or an advanced degree should be reasonably accessible to all who pursue it.  Unfortunately that is not currently the case.  Week after week we read in the paper about students coming out of college with mountains of debt.  Others are not able to achieve a higher education because they don't have the resources or they are overwhelmed by the process.  It is in our country's best interest to streamline this process and make it available to everyone.

We also need to broaden our definition of higher education.  We certainly want to continue our longstanding commitment to high quality colleges and universities but if we agree that is not the path for everyone, lets make a greater variety of paths available.
  • More satellite campuses.  Why do we not have satellite campuses in Waltham, providing easier access for many.
  • Civics Education.  May not be the correct term for it but we have so many immigrants in our country.  Let's be pro-active in providing them an opportunity to learn the skills necessary to be successful here.  I know there are many that have come before them that got by fine without the extra help.  My grandparents are among them.  But that doesn't mean we can't do better.  Some topics we should cover are:
    • How to become a citizen
    • English
    • How to start a business
    • How to help your children succeed in school
    • How to find resources for yourself and your family
    • How to access various types of education
    • Why it is important to be involved in government and how to go about it
    • Some of these topics are covered to various degrees in various places but if we could formalize and centralize these classes it would help move people forward.  In fact many life long Americans would benefit from many of these classes.
  • Take better advantage of our technical schools.  We have Minuteman Technical High School sitting practically empty for all but 40 hours a week.  Why don't we open it and other schools like it up to the community?  There are some community education programs at night but why not run certificate programs in computer programming, biotechnology, plumbing, dental hygiene, culinary arts and all the shops?  We could have classes for adults, we could have classes for kids that can't make it in traditional classrooms etc.  Businesses are desperate for quality trained, skilled employees, what is stopping us from making it happen right here?

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Notes from Mental Health Community Conversation on 8/26/14


Notes from meeting on 8/26/14  How can we both reduce the stigma and address the unmet mental health needs of so many among us?
http://metro.co.uk/2014/02/06/time-to-talk-day-shaking-off-the-stigma-of-mental-health-4265834/


First, some statistics:

One in five children birth to 18 has a diagnosable mental disorder.
One in 10 youth has serious mental health problems that are severe enough to impair how they function at home, in school, or in the community.
About 18 percent of children and adults — more than 1 million people in Massachusetts — suffer from behavior problems, depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, or other psychiatric illnesses, and about 9 percent have substance abuse disorders, according to a report last month from the state Department of Public Health.

 Untreated population with schizophrenia: 37,284   
Untreated population with severe bipolar disorder: 58,486  
Estimated number of homeless with with severe mental illness: 4,999 (30% of 16,664 )
Prisons:
7.26% of the male inmate population identified as having serious mental illness
24% of men in prison have open mental health cases; 18% on psychotropic medication
24.9% of the female inmate population identified as having serious mental
59% of women in prison have open mental health cases; 49% on psychotropic predication

http://www.bostonglobe.com/lifestyle/health-wellness/2014/06/26/change-proposed-inmates-health-coverage/xfY7PeWbX1U0gzCtMwUlBN/story.html
Forty percent of inmates in [Middlesex County Sherriff] Koutoujian’s charge suffer from a mental illness, and 80 to 90 percent report drug or alcohol addiction, he said, making it urgent for them to connect with caregivers shortly after release.






We had 7 people show up at the Waltham Public Library for this discussion.  These are my somewhat cryptic notes, in order of how they came up in the discussions and to the best of my recollection.

·      Waverly Place in Belmont is a day program that helps adults work on their goals.  It  is run by McLean Hospital and grant funded.
·      Mental health issues and substance use is common and can have undesirable consequences.  As hard as it is for most to avoid using  substances, it is even more difficult for kids with MH needs.
·      It is sometimes difficult to differentiate between MH issues and issues related to substance use, and sometimes they are so intertwined there is no difference
·      Stigma gets in the way of admitting there is an issue or a need
·      Not necessarily the same level of stigma associated with MH issues in other countries as there is here in the US.  All cultures are diffrent, here in the US we tend to hide our family members with MH issues.  Parents often feel as though their children are shunned and sometimes the family is shunned by the community
·      MH issues need to be identified early on in families, noticing and dealing with issues, differentiating between typical behavior and non-typical.  Hard to know what to look for and then know what to do.  Parents are not trained MH experts
·      ‘Back in the day’, people lived with their extended families and there was a place for an uncle with MH issues or an aunt that could not go out on her own.  They were accepted as part of the family.
·      Two different people heard someone with MH issues speak at their places of worship.  Very brave act and helpful for the community to understand that this is just one facet of the person and to understand how it impacts the person’s life and that they can still be productive contributing citizens
·      We in the US are getting a little better but we do not know how to talk about MH, about race, about oppression
·      We do have the freedom in the US to explore new ideas and try to implement them
·      Education system needs attention
o   Need to put more effort into helping our educators identify, understand and help our children
o   Need more alternative educational options to help our children be succcssful
o   Massachusetts implementation of No Child Left Behind by the requirement to pass MCAS is in fact leaving many children behind.
o   Students that need MH services often do well academically so they are not identified as children in need.  The law requires that they make adequate progress not just academically but also socially and emotionally.  Educators and parents are often not aware of this requirement and the only recourse for families is to hire a Special Education lawyer of an educational advocate.  Costs lots of money to get the students their legal right
o   It can be difficult to measure social emotional growth but there are tests just for this
o   There is much more awareness now and some of the stigma is going away in the schools.  One person said his daughter is not at all afraid to say she is going to the Disability Office at her college
·      Mental Health Parity - http://www.healthlawadvocates.org/priority-areas?id=0016  Adults and children who need mental health treatment or substance abuse treatment should have access to the care they need.  Both Massachusetts law and federal law require health plans to cover diagnosis and treatment of these conditions at equal levels to coverage for medical and surgical services.  The federal Paul Wellstone and Pete Domenici Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act of 2008 (MHPAEA) prevents health plans from placing higher costs or stricter treatment limitations on consumers who need mental health and substance abuse services.  Under the Massachusetts Mental Health Parity Law, insurers may not establish dollar or service amount limits that are more restrictive for biologically-based mental health conditions than for other types of medical conditions and requires a minimum level of coverage for non-biologically based conditions.
o   Yet we continue to have to re-qualify for services
o   Very difficult to find quality providers and then to find quality providers that will take your insurance is another battle

·      What are we doing as a community?
o   Roz Rubin, Director of GWarc in Waltham is an advocate for change at the legislative level – would be a good contact
o   Need a community center or some place for people to connect, find support and resources
o   Need educational advocacy
o   Need housing.  There is some limited housing through the Department of Mental Health but there is not nearly enough housing and many people fall through the cracks
o   People with MH issues are not always their own best advocates
o   After a person turns 18 parents often cannot gain access to information because their child is now considered an adult
We all have responsibility for MH

·      De-institutionalization
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deinstitutionalisation According to psychiatrist and author Thomas Szasz, deinstitutionalisation is the policy and practice of transferring homeless, involuntarily hospitalised mental patients from state mental hospitals into many different kinds of de facto psychiatric institutions funded largely by the federal government. These federally subsidised institutions began in the United States and were quickly adopted by most Western governments. The plan was set in motion by the Community Mental Health Act as a part of John F. Kennedy's legislation [clarification needed] and passed by the U.S. Congress in 1963, mandating the appointment of a commission to make recommendations for "combating mental illness in the United States".[4]
Although deinstitutionalisation has been positive for the majority of patients, it also has severe shortcomings.[22] Expectations that community care would lead to fuller social integration have not been achieved; many remain without work, have limited social contacts, and often live in sheltered environments.[23]
o   ‘We’ have a moral obligation, and some might argue a legal obligation to take care of these citizens.
o   There is little lobbying done on behalf of people with MH issues.  NAMI (http://www.namimass.org) does good work but not nearly enough
o   Police are often the first line of defense in communities and they are not trained mental health providers
o   Here is a report from NAMI on the state of mental health services in MA http://www.namimass.org/wp-content/uploads/Report-on-State-of-Mental-Health-in-2014.pdf  It is appalling.
o   We need to find a way to stimulate the community to take an interest in this important topic
§  Maybe something like the ‘ice bucket challenge’, or the Pink for Breast Cancer awareness, we need to find our own ‘thing’
§  NAMI has a mental heath walk and the OCD community has a fund raiser walk - we need more than these to raise awareness

·      What can we do?
o   Look at other countries for models of MH care
o   Consider implementing a local community mental health center modeled on the Council on Aging
o   Advocate for more and better community based services
o   More advocacy

·      Why should me/we/you care?
o   Health care industry is a big job generator
o   Massachusetts could and should be the mental health care innovation center
o   Look at all the mass shootings and suicides.  Many could be prevented with better health care services
o   Impact on community of under-educating or under-serving our children has financial repercussions for all of us

Next up, the Story of Oscar.